This Is Fine
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This Is Fine
2 Old Millennials exploring all those things that make you feel "this is fine" when it really isn't. Ivor and DJ unpack the feelings, add some humor and tips to help you on your mental health journey.
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Hey Humility! It's Me, Ivor!
This is our first time being human and we're just trying our best.
I've found that humility is a peaceful avenue pathed with genuine connection...
Friendships Over Seoul Traffic
In this episode Ivor and Mallory candidly discuss friendships as the mechanical sounds of life in the year 2023 add their two cents.
Mallory and...
Pleasure
Ivor and Mallory take the podcast somewhere a little different and definitely more lighthearted and casually discuss pleasure.
We often engage...
One Goat. Two Horns.
Oftentimes, I'm so wrapped up in my own perspective that I can really get lost in my viewpoint. I'm lucky enough to have a creative endevour with a be...
Enough!
Ivor goes solo for 15 minutes to talk about this idea of "enough'.
Enough is such a powerful, elegant, potent and underused word. It's best ser...
Can You Commit?
In Can You Commit?
Mallory blends her soft nature with Ivor's hard facts in a discussion about commitment that's as complementary as it is polar...
Cats x Podcast Boundaries
Ivor and Mallory lightheartedly and tangentially discuss...
all while the cats are in heat
Disrupt Comfort with Chaos
Ivor and Mallory explore their own discomforts as they discuss Ivor's opinion that comfort is not conducive to growth.
They discuss:
Foll...
More Said Than Done
Ivor & Mallory submerge themselves into the warm, comforting waters of procrastination and uncover some chilly truths.
They discuss:
Foll...
Feeling It Out
Ivor and Mallory candidly throw around creative energy to explore intention under prompt of the tarot.
Bootycandy by The Collective
Bootycandy is the 3rd play by The Collective, a theatre production company that amplifies the voices and experiences of minorities to help us take a s...
No really...snap out of it.
I was visited by a memory recently and it compelled me back in front of the microphone. Look at a problem in a different light and you can turn it int...
Coloureds Discuss Representation (w/Kim Schroeder)
Ivor and Kim dive into some of the issues of being too much of one thing but at the same time not enough of the other. Kick back and listen to friends...
A Rigorous Two Minutes
Most people are faintly aware of their potential. But the business of living life in the trenches beneath the upper class leaves us exhausted at days...
Am I The Asshole? (w/Kim Schroeder)
Ivor & Kim have some lighthearted but aggressively opinionated commentary on some stories from the subreddit AITA. As people our perspectives can get...
Hello Confidence. It's me, Ivor.
Ivor revisits his discovery of confidence. Listen to his formula for confidence and perhaps you can apply it to your life where it is needed.
D...
Is Your Mental Health Toxic? (w/ Gabrielle Dawn)
Ivor is joined by a friend from Tennessee, a woman who exudes excellence in the way she moves through the world. They dive into the relationship betwe...
Everything is Aiming
By way of a Japanese martial arts philosophy, Ivor finds a new way of reinvigorating commitments, goals, realizations, and the elusive sense of living...
The Effort of Motivation
Where does your motivation come from? Is it something you're born with? Is it something you can own?
Ivor digs into some James Clear knowledge t...
Body Thoughts
Ivor explores the idea of his own wrongness, vanity and hypersensitivity to transmute it all into a healthier outcome.
Share your feedback or s...
Anxious Testicles
Anxiety colours our lives with either excitement or depersonalization. Ivor's personal experience finally helps him understand how anxiety can be out...
Wounds and Wisdom
Do you have a purpose? Should you have a purpose?
Listen to how a young boy takes a lesson from his struggling mother on kindness and how he tr...
Feeling Success & Feeling Failure
Ivor returns with more insights and lessons after 5 weeks of radio silence to talk more fervently about mindset, mental health and direction.
I...
Pocket Gays (w/Alameen)
Ivor is joined by Alameen and they tangent through changes, gratitude, anxiety and being gay as BIPOC men.
We'd like to hear form you! Do you h...
Sweaty Self Control
Ivor journey's from the middle of his bedroom floor to the front of the mic and share the realizations along the way.
Mental Fortitude
In Mental Fortitude
Ivor explores the mental blocks and habits we all share that contribute to a precarious mental state. Mental Fortitude is so...
Self-Mastery: Looking at Restless Skeptical Doubt
Let's explore the last two hinderances to mastery of self; Restlessness and Skeptical Doubt and wrap up with four tools you can use to increase the od...
Self-Mastery: Looking at the Dull Heavy Leather Couch
Mastery of self is a tricky thing that requires constant vigilance. I believe that each of us are on a quest, realized or not, to become the best vers...
Self Mastery: Looking at Ill Will and Aversion
Ivor explores how he has encountered Ill Will and Aversion and re-thinks a lesson he thought he'd learnt. Then he gets a little deeper with the I want...
Self Mastery: Looking at Sensual Desires
In Looking at Sensual Desires...
Ivor embarks on defining self-mastery through the lens the Shaolin Philosophy and uncovers a hazy cortisone mem...
Limiting The Lone Wolf
Ivor jumps down the rabbit hole on a recurring insecurity, recalls a mountainside memory and toys with the concepts of limiting belief and limiting id...
Re-think Shitty Karma
In Re-think Shitty Karma...
Ivor shares a shitty story and how he's starting to see his limiting beliefs.
Would I Lie to You? Yes. (w/Jessica Swartz)
"The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses...
Is It Silly To Be Sad?
In Silly Sadness
When you reach the upper reaches of the atmosphere you come undone.
Stir Your Stagnant Waters
Ivor dives deeper into the connection between consistency, specificity, and courage.
If you liked this episode please leave a 5 star review whe...
Angy Virgo Laffy Taffy (w/Quandra)
A woman whose presence demands attention like all the great virgos who have taken the stage joins Ivor in an episode filled with tangents. Quandra and...
Trauma In Your Genes (w/Que Gardere)
Ivor and cheese burger lover Que Gardere explore Generational Trauma against the backdrop of their intersectional identities. Generational Trauma embe...
Accountability & Sex Intermissions
Being accountable for your actions without blame on external factors is a sign that you're on the path to mental fortitude. Listen to DJ's farewell ep...
Authentic Tangents (w/Wynsum Foreman)
Ivor is joined by his good friend and fellow Lucile Bluthe fan Wynsum Foreman. They discuss the idea of authenticity and ways in which they have battl...